Early in my leadership career in financial services, I was told I was “too aggressive.” The feedback came from my leadership development coach — a woman. Her advice? Soften. Step back. Let your male manager speak for you. What struck me wasn’t the sting of the criticism. It was the confusion. I had just come out of a leadership meeting where the CFO asked for ideas. I raised my hand and offered a clear, thoughtful, and direct idea.
He dismissed it.
Then a male colleague stood and shared the exact same idea. This time, the CFO lit up. Praised it. Expanded on it. The man sitting next to me leaned over and whispered, “Didn’t you just say that?” Yes. Yes, I had.
I grew up in an egalitarian home with three older brothers. My parents worked side by side. My mother was confident and secure in who she was. My father treated me as equally capable as my brothers. I entered the corporate world expecting the same rules. Instead, I was told to be smaller. Quieter. Less direct. Less me.
And that was the moment I began to understand something most high-performing women eventually learn:
Competence is not the same thing as permission.

I adjusted my tone. I held back in meetings. I deferred when I normally would have leaned in. And my effectiveness dropped. I was off balance and continued to be confused about where my boundaries were.
Not because I lacked competence (which I started to believe was the case) but because I was operating outside my authenticity. And this is a lesson it took me decades to realize...
Men and women function differently. Men are more likely to present achievements as ability-based; women often soften attribution or share credit. When capable women soften their judgment, decisiveness, and synthesis, they don’t become more promotable. They become less visible.
That season shaped everything that followed.
I'll admit that I didn’t immediately reject the feedback. I wrestled with it. I questioned myself. I adjusted to the ill-fitted space I was told I needed to inhabit.
It has taken decades to fully trust my voice again without apology. Yes! I'm finally my fully out-there, authentic me! And I'm still learning. And I'm still growing. But depth takes time. Clarity takes time. Conviction takes time.
Every stage prepared me to guide women through the very tension I once navigated alone.
My approach is strategic, direct, and highly personalized. There are no templates. No surface-level résumé edits. No generic scripts.
Every engagement begins with clarity around:
From there, we align your leadership narrative, positioning, and transition strategy with the level you are ready to inhabit.
►Some clients need structured identity work.
►Some require integrated transition support.
►Others need strategic advisory inside a newly secured role.
The structure adapts. The rigor does not.
Our work is not about you becoming someone else. It's about ensuring your leadership is understood at the enterprise level without dimming your light.

Laura Lee Ellen “Laura” Johnson, MBA
Founder & CEO, LLEJ Careers
Author / Speaker / Personal Branding Strategist
Strategic. Confidential. Direct. Compassionate.
My experience spans social systems, corporate environments, and executive-level advisory, enabling me to view leadership through structural, strategic, and human lenses simultaneously.

I work with:
I do not work with early-career professionals or general job seekers. My focus is intentionally narrow.
Sample Engagements:
Director → SVP Transition (Full Bridge)
Pre-Search Positioning (Executive Identity Intensive)
You have the results.
You have the judgment.
You have the range.
What you may not yet have is positioning that reflects the full scope of your leadership.
The women I work with are not trying to become more. They are ready to be seen more accurately.
If you are preparing for a larger mandate, expanded influence, or your next executive seat, let’s have a strategic conversation.
Not exploratory.
Not transactional.
Intentional.
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